Updated: Nov 23, 2020
Have you had your share of manifesting the ‘wrong’ type of partners in your life? If you are ready to manifest for your soulmate, here are some tips on how to do that, the best words to use and what you need to do in order to be ready to receive your soulmate.
Soulmates have been a common theme with many of my client sessions over the past 2 months so I thought it was a good time to delve into the subject.
First, let's take a look at the different types of soulmates.
Each person born into this world can have many different soulmates throughout their lifetime. These soulmates can come in the form of best friends, collogues, family members, workmates and even animals can be a soulmate. They can range in age, geographic location, gender and so on. A soulmate is often referred to as someone you have known from another time or place. It is someone you have an instant and unexplained deep connection with. “I feel like I know you”, “have we met before?” are often phrases used when encountering a soulmate.
The fact is, it is easy to manifest a soulmate, but it can take a little more time to manifest the ‘right’ one. If you want to manifest for a soulmate, I recommend using the words ‘most compatible soulmate’. This way, you will manifest one that is compatible with you on many levels. They will have compatible values, compatible communication styles, compatible life goals and so on. This can of course help the relationship run a little more smoothly…at least initially that is.
Keep in mind that compatible doesn’t necessarily mean easy. It just means that they are compatible.
You may be familiar with this concept and there are several ways to look at this type of soulmate relationship. One of the concepts is that the soul splits off into two people to be able to experience both sides of the relationship. So with this concept, these two people actually share the same soul. There are other perspectives but for now, let’s keep it simple and say that this type of relationship is like dating yourself. The other person can be just like you in many ways – similar mannerisms, similar thoughts or ideas, similar life experiences. The problem with this type of relationship is that the other person could be exactly like you…when you were 18 years old or the like.
Often, this type of soul relationship can be quite intense and tumultuous.
Don’t get me wrong. There is a whole lot of personal growth and insights that can be gained from this type of relationship. I have seen people grow and evolve immensely from these relationships. But the growth can sometimes be through conflict and contrast.
Chances are if you have been on your spiritual awakening journey for a while now, you would likely have already experienced a twin flame relationship.
Divine Life Partner
This type of soulmate relationship is usually centred around “the one”. That one person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
When manifesting for this type of relationship, we also use the words “most compatible” divine life partner. The question you need to ask yourself first, however, is – are you really ready for this type of relationship? Do you have space in your life for them? Once you manifest them, are you ready to live with them? You may wish to write on your manifestation list that they know how to pick up their socks.
They will be compatible in so many ways with you and the beautiful thing about this type of compatibility is your divine timing is in harmony with theirs. You can accomplish your soul mission, purpose or what ever you like to call it together.
If you are ready to manifest this type of relationship, here are some suggestions of how to do that.
Write out a list of 100 attributes you would like your most compatible divine life partner to have. Most people start of with the physical attributes, which is totally fine. Be specific about things like your preferred age range, sexual orientation, specific values or qualities they may have. Write it all down. The universe likes specifics!
Write down a list of 100 attributes you will be bringing to the relationship. What are your amazing qualities, what do you have to offer? This list can tend to be a little tricky for some people. But for universe to bring you the most compatible partner, you need to acknowledge this within yourself.
When writing this list, some resistance or beliefs may surface. This is a good thing! It shows some aspects of what you may need to work on within yourself to feel worthy, open and ready for your divine life partner.
As an example, you may write on your list that you are a compassionate person. This is an amazing thing you can offer to a divine life partner relationship. But in the past, you may have been taken advantage of or walked all over when you showed compassion and may still feel some resistance to that. This is something that needs to be healed before attracting a new relationship so you don’t play out that same belief. The idea is to create a list without resistance, without the “buts” so the energy flows easily.
If you feel you have some resistance to writing your list, a Theta Healing session may be helpful to clear those beliefs and bring in some new beliefs that support you moving forward. You can find out more information about sessions here.
Once you have your two lists ready to go, the next step is to do a manifestation meditation. There are many ways to do this and some people like to bring in various rituals as well.
I have a simple meditation available for you on my website. It is free to download here and is a simple way to get you in the manifestation vibration.
See how it feels, see how it resonates for you and do let me know if you have any questions.